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Wisdom of the day · 28 October 2026

The wisdom of the day

Every morning one thought from real history – with the life situation it came from, and the way that person found through it.

„You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.“

Eleanor Roosevelt
1884–1962

The historical background

Eleanor Roosevelt grew up painfully shy and insecure, constantly told she was too plain, too awkward, too much. After her husband Franklin contracted polio in 1921, she was thrust into the public eye despite crippling self-doubt.

She faced relentless criticism as First Lady when she championed civil rights and women's equality—causes that brought mockery and threats. Yet it was precisely by doing the things she feared most—speaking publicly, standing alone for justice—that she discovered her own immense capability and became one of the most influential women of the twentieth century.

The way into the light

Eleanor transformed her paralyzing self-doubt into a philosophy of courage through action. She became a powerful advocate for human rights, serving as the first chair of the UN Commission on Human Rights and helping draft the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

By repeatedly doing what terrified her, she proved to herself—and millions of others—that ability is not something you possess, but something you build with each brave step forward. Her legacy reminds us that our greatest strengths often lie hidden beneath our deepest doubts, waiting to be discovered through the simple act of trying.

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